Allison Holker, known for her time on So You Think You Can Dance and Dancing with the Stars, faces criticism after announcing her memoir, This Far: My Story of Love, Loss, and Embracing the Light. The memoir shares her experiences, personal struggles, and the private life she shared with her late husband, Stephen “tWitch” Boss.
While Holker intended to honor her story and raise awareness about mental health, some individuals close to tWitch have expressed disappointment and anger over her revelations.
The controversy began when Holker revealed details about their life together, including the discovery of what she described as a “cornucopia of drugs.” This specific disclosure sparked a swift and emotional response. Courtney Ann Platt, a fellow dancer, criticized Holker in an Instagram post, saying, “You’re a living, breathing bulldozer.”
This marked the start of a heated public debate about whether Holker’s memoir is a genuine effort to help others or a way to profit from her late husband’s legacy.
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Adding fuel to the fire, tWitch’s brother, Dre Ross, joined the conversation. He reshared Platt’s post on his own Instagram story, writing, “No lies told…” Dre’s public support of Platt’s criticism amplified the backlash and encouraged others to voice their opinions.
Comfort Fedoke, another So You Think You Can Dance alum, also shared her concerns. In a detailed Instagram post, she questioned Holker’s motives and whether they aligned with truly honoring tWitch’s memory.
Fedoke’s post highlighted her doubts about Holker’s intentions, asking, “What’s the real motive here? Awareness or attention?” She expressed frustration that tWitch is unwilling to share his side of the story and accused Holker of tarnishing his legacy.
Fedoke also mentioned the significance of their matching IV tattoos, symbolizing loyalty, love, and unity. She described Holker’s handling of his legacy as deeply hurtful and disappointing.
Despite the criticism, Allison Holker remains steadfast in sharing her story. Responding to one of the comments under People Magazine’s Instagram post, she wrote, “I’ll always love you.
Just trying to help people feel safe to ask for help and support.” She also shared numerous supportive messages on her Instagram story, indicating that many fans and followers stand by her.
The criticism largely stems from the belief that Holker’s memoir reveals too much private information about tWitch, including excerpts from his journals.
Many argue that such disclosures cross a line, especially given the deeply sensitive nature of his passing. Stephen “tWitch” Boss, beloved choreographer and co-executive producer of The Ellen DeGeneres Show died by suicide at the age of 40 in December 2022.
While Holker’s intentions may be rooted in helping others who are struggling with mental health challenges, the backlash highlights the complexity of sharing personal stories that intersect with others’ lives. The debate continues, but Holker is determined to move forward with her memoir, believing it can inspire and support those in need.
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