The first part of the “90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Tell All” episode revealed some shocking moments, but one couple, Tigerlily Taylor and Adnan Abdelfattah, are putting in a lot of effort to fix their relationship storyline.
Tigerlily and Adnan met online and talked for a few months before Tigerlily flew to Jordan to meet and marry the man she considered the love of her life. This couple quickly became a subject of interest among fans of the show due to the complex nature of their relationship and the different cultural expectations they were both facing.
When the couple first appeared on the show, I was left confused by their storyline. Tigerlily, who had just gone through a divorce, was carrying emotional baggage from her past relationship. As a result, her most important personal boundary was to avoid double standards.
She wanted to be treated equally and fairly. However, throughout the show, the couple’s time on screen was filled with constant arguments and misunderstandings, especially surrounding Adnan’s religious beliefs and Tigerlily’s confusion about what was expected of her. Despite these struggles, the couple rushed into marriage and quickly started trying for a baby.
Unfortunately, these big changes didn’t seem to help their relationship grow. Now that they are married and have recently welcomed a son, Tigerlily’s behavior during the Tell All interview surprised fans.
During the Tell All episode, she seemed to change her perspective, which led to some tension with both the audience and the other cast members. Let’s take a closer look at the issues that have surrounded this couple and what the future might hold for them.
Double Standards and Misunderstandings
When Tigerlily first appeared on the show, she shared that she had recently gone through a divorce and described her past life as a “golden bird cage.” This was her way of saying that she had everything she could possibly need, yet she still felt trapped and lonely in her previous relationship.
Tigerlily spoke about experiencing inequality and controlling behaviors from her former partner. She found herself in a situation where her life was comfortable, but her emotional and mental well-being was not supported.
This is why it was very important for her to find a relationship where both partners were treated equally, and she would not have to deal with double standards.
At first, it seemed that Tigerlily had found the kind of relationship she wanted with Adnan. But from an outsider’s perspective, it was clear that their relationship was full of contradictions. One of the most glaring issues was the double standards between the two.
For example, Tigerlily was told she could not wear certain clothes or even have male friends, even those she had known for many years. On the other hand, Adnan was free to post shirtless pictures on social media and hang out with anyone he wanted.
It appeared that Tigerlily’s boundary of equality was not being respected in the relationship. While it is important to respect cultural differences, the way these cultural differences were being applied seemed to be unfair.
This was not the only issue in their relationship. Another major problem was Adnan’s habit of making important decisions behind Tigerlily’s back. For example, he gave his brother power of attorney, which meant his brother had control over Tigerlily’s money and resources.
While it is important to respect each other’s cultures and family traditions, these actions raised questions about trust and respect in the relationship. These issues led me to believe that the couple might not be in the healthiest dynamic, despite their efforts to make it work.
Tigerlily’s Changing Perspective
Throughout their time on the show, Tigerlily often expressed her frustration and confusion about the double standards in her relationship.
She was upset because she didn’t know what rules she needed to follow. For instance, she didn’t understand which parts of her body she could show or which clothes would be considered offensive.
Tigerlily’s confusion was understandable, but the bigger issue was that she was still living under these double standards. She seemed to want to find a balance, but the rules seemed unclear and unfair.
However, during the Tell All episode, Tigerlily seemed to change her tune. She no longer seemed as upset about the cultural rules she was expected to follow. Instead, she said that she no longer minded the cultural standards now that she understood what was allowed and what was not.
This was a stark difference from her earlier attitude on the show, where she appeared frustrated and confused. In the Tell All, Tigerlily even tried to justify the double standards, claiming that everything was fine now because Adnan was also following some of the same rules.
While it’s good that the couple is trying to find a middle ground, there were still some concerns. The host, Shaun Robinson, pointed out that Tigerlily had never really cared if Adnan had female doctors or friends.
This led to the question: Is this change really a compromise that will benefit both of them? Tigerlily seemed to be adjusting her attitude, but I wasn’t convinced that this would lead to a healthier relationship for them in the long run.
The Pressure of Public Scrutiny
It’s important to acknowledge the pressure that couples face when they appear on a public platform like “90 Day Fiancé.” The public’s opinion and the cameras can create a lot of stress, and it’s clear that Tigerlily might have been overwhelmed by the rapid changes in her life.
She had quickly moved to another country, rushed into marriage, and was also dealing with pregnancy hormones. These factors could have clouded her judgment and affected the way she viewed her relationship with Adnan.
However, I also believe that Tigerlily may be trying too hard to justify her decisions. She seems to be making excuses for Adnan’s actions and the unequal treatment in their relationship. She may be trying to make everything look better than it is, but this might not be healthy in the long run.
Sometimes, taking a step back and reevaluating the situation is necessary to understand what is truly best for both partners. Relationships require honesty, communication, and mutual respect, and I think Tigerlily might need to look more closely at the bigger picture to decide whether this relationship is the right one for her.
Conclusion: A Relationship in Need of Re-Evaluation
At the end of the day, it is Tigerlily and Adnan’s relationship, and they are free to make their own choices. They are not obligated to follow anyone’s advice or opinions. However, as an outsider looking in, I believe that Tigerlily needs to take a step back and reevaluate her relationship with Adnan.
The double standards, miscommunications, and lack of mutual respect in certain areas need to be addressed if they want to build a truly healthy relationship. Tigerlily may have changed her attitude on the Tell All, but I’m not convinced that everything is as perfect as she wants to make it seem.
Fans of “90 Day Fiancé” and its spin-off series will have to wait and see how this couple’s journey unfolds. In the meantime, Tigerlily and Adnan’s relationship remains a topic of much debate and discussion. The show continues to air on TLC and is also available to stream on Max in the U.S.
