Shari Franke, the eldest daughter of the controversial “mommy vlogger” Ruby Franke, is marking a significant milestone in her life. On December 28, 2024, Shari shared the exciting news of her engagement on Instagram, posting a picture showing off her pear-shaped diamond engagement ring. The announcement comes with a promise to no longer share her private life online.
Along with her engagement news, Shari made it clear that this marks the end of her sharing personal details on social media. In her post, Shari expressed how her voice and agency had been taken from her for a long time, adding that now she is taking a stand. “I’m putting my foot down,” she declared, revealing that she would no longer discuss her wedding, future husband, or children.
Shari emphasized that while she is stepping back from sharing personal information, she will continue advocating for children’s rights. She assured followers that they would still hear from her in this capacity, stating that this decision is a step toward her freedom and happiness. “This is closure for me,” she said, urging her followers to respect her privacy and that of her future family.
This announcement follows Shari’s emotional testimony in October 2024, when she spoke before Utah lawmakers about her experiences as a “victim of family vlogging.” Shari explained that the damage done by family vlogging began long before her mother, Ruby Franke, was arrested for child abuse in September 2023. She spoke about the emotional and physical toll of having her childhood documented and shared for profit.
During her testimony, Shari recalled the traumatic moments that were captured on camera and shared with the world. She mentioned how her most popular videos often involved painful or vulnerable moments, like when she had an eyebrow wax mishap or when she was severely ill. “I just wanted to mourn in private,” she reflected. She also shared how constant filming made her social life difficult, as her friends didn’t want to be recorded, and she had no time off from the cameras.
Shari also revealed the lasting consequences of her childhood exposure to family vlogging. She described how her social media was flooded with harmful rumors, including accusations of inappropriate behavior with her brother. These rumors, she said, have haunted her and shaped how people perceive her, particularly during her teenage years.
In the aftermath of Ruby Franke’s arrest, Shari expressed relief, writing on social media that justice was finally being served. She shared that her family had been trying to alert authorities about the abuse for years, and she was glad to see the situation addressed. Shari’s courage in speaking out continues to inspire as she shifts focus to her personal life while remaining committed to her advocacy for children.
