Nikki Glaser, the sharp-tongued comedian who made history as the first female host of the Golden Globes in 2025, has audiences not only with her wit but also with her refreshingly honest approach to discussing relationships. While her professional life continues to soar—from her breakout performance at The Roast of Tom Brady to hosting prestigious award ceremonies—fans remain equally fascinated by her personal life, particularly her romantic relationship with television producer Chris Convy.
The 40-year-old comedian’s love life has been anything but conventional, marked by a decade-long on-and-off relationship that reads like a romantic comedy script. Their story began in the entertainment industry’s bustling world, where workplace connections often blossom into something deeper. What started as a professional collaboration has evolved into one of Hollywood’s most intriguing long-term relationships, complete with multiple breakups, reconciliations, and a level of transparency that’s rare among celebrity couples.
Glaser’s openness about her relationship struggles, commitment issues, and personal growth has resonated with fans who appreciate her authenticity. Rather than presenting a picture-perfect romance, she’s shared the messy, complicated reality of modern love, making her relationship with Convy all the more relatable and compelling to follow.
The Beginning: A Workplace Romance
The love story between Nikki Glaser and Chris Convy began in 2013 when they first crossed paths while working on Glaser’s MTV show “Nikki & Sara Live”. Convy, a seasoned television and radio producer, was part of the production team, while Glaser was establishing herself as a rising star in comedy. Their initial connection was far from immediate romance—instead, it was a classic case of unrequited attraction that Glaser herself compared to the beloved Jim and Pam dynamic from “The Office”.
“We met in New York… He was a producer on the show and he was from St. Louis, where I was from,” Glaser recalled in a 2022 interview. What made their initial interaction particularly interesting was Glaser’s assumption about Convy’s lifestyle. Having recently completed a year of sobriety, she was cautious about dating heavy drinkers. Convy’s confidence and humor initially led her to believe he was a drinker, but discovering he didn’t drink at all actually deepened her interest.
“I just had a crush from afar… It was very Jim and Pam from The Office. I was Jim, and he had no idea,” Glaser shared, highlighting the one-sided nature of their early connection. This workplace crush would eventually develop into something much more significant, though not without its complications.
Chris Convy’s Professional Background
Chris Convy has built an impressive career in television and radio production, starting his journey in 2007 with the MTV Video Music Awards Show. His expertise spans various high-profile projects, including the Nick Kid’s Choice Awards and the iHeartRadio Music Awards. More recently, he’s worked on notable TV specials such as “The Little Mermaid Live!” in 2019 and “Adam Sandler: The Kennedy Center Mark Twain Prize for American Humor” in 2023.
Convy’s production work extended to Glaser’s career when he produced her 2016 comedy series “Not Safe with Nikki Glaser”. This professional collaboration strengthened their personal bond, though the show’s cancellation after one season coincided with one of their early breakups. His willingness to work closely with Glaser on her projects demonstrates his commitment to supporting her career, even when their personal relationship faced challenges.
The On-and-Off Pattern
Perhaps the most defining characteristic of Glaser and Convy’s relationship is its cyclical nature. In a candid 2024 interview with Howard Stern, Glaser revealed they had broken up “more than 5 times” over their decade-long relationship. This pattern of separation and reconciliation has become a hallmark of their romance, with Glaser openly discussing her struggles with commitment.
“I think the off and on is because committing to anything forever, I think that forever makes me think of no other adventures. It’s kind of admitting defeat, it’s settled,” Glaser explained. Her honesty about commitment phobia resonates with many who struggle with similar fears about long-term relationships. Despite these challenges, when asked directly about being in love, Glaser’s response was unequivocal: “Oh yeah”.
The couple’s ability to repeatedly find their way back to each other suggests a deep underlying connection that transcends their individual issues. Their relationship serves as a testament to the idea that love doesn’t always follow a linear path, and that sometimes the most meaningful connections require multiple attempts to get right.
Pandemic Turning Point
The COVID-19 pandemic marked a significant turning point in Glaser and Convy’s relationship. When lockdowns began, Glaser moved back to St. Louis, Missouri—both her and Convy’s hometown—and used this time to develop her E! network docuseries “Welcome Home Nikki Glaser”. Originally conceived as a dating show, the series evolved when Glaser began seeing Convy again.
This period proved crucial for their relationship’s development. Glaser had initially told Convy, “I’ll keep seeing you in private, but I have to date on the show unless you want to be on camera,” and his willingness to participate publicly became a “turning point” for both of them. His decision to share their relationship publicly demonstrated a level of commitment that helped Glaser realize his genuine investment in their partnership.
“He wants to, like, share a thing together, so it was just all these things,” Glaser reflected. “Then I started doing things that were hard for me to do, like making time for him”. This mutual effort to prioritize their relationship marked a new chapter in their on-and-off romance.
Recent Developments and Current Status
Following Glaser’s breakout performance at The Roast of Tom Brady in 2024, where she famously joked about Convy in front of a live audience, their relationship faced another rough patch. During the roast, Glaser made a provocative joke about being willing to harm Convy for a chance with Tom Brady, showcasing her willingness to use their relationship as comedic material.
However, recent interviews suggest they’ve worked through their issues. In a late 2024 conversation on “Club Random With Bill Maher,” Glaser admitted they had considered going their separate ways but experienced a breakthrough. “I had a breakthrough recently with him where we were kind of maybe going to go our separate ways … and then I just stopped,” she revealed.
The comedian’s epiphany centered on acceptance and realistic expectations. “It’s so basic, but I just realized, like, no one I’m fantasizing about maybe replacing him with … no one’s going to be perfect,” she continued. “He doesn’t need to be perfect for me. It was really just about acceptance, and we’ve just been so good ever since”.
As of 2025, Glaser and Convy appeared together at the Golden Globes, where she made history as the ceremony’s first female comedian host. Their public appearance together suggests their relationship has found a more stable footing, with both partners committed to making their partnership work.
“We’re just trying to be partners and figure it out,” Glaser added, indicating their current focus on building a sustainable, supportive relationship. Their journey from workplace acquaintances to long-term partners, despite multiple setbacks, demonstrates the complex nature of modern relationships and the power of persistence in love.
