Scheana Shay recently addressed James Kennedy’s arrest for domestic violence, sharing the reasons behind her initial silence. On her “Shenanigans” podcast on December 27, Shay, 39, explained that she had received many questions about the incident, but had chosen to remain quiet out of respect for Kennedy’s girlfriend, Ally Lewber, who had requested privacy.
Shay clarified that her decision not to speak out immediately was due to her desire to honor Lewber’s wishes. However, she recognized how this silence might have been misinterpreted. Shay assured her audience that she did not support Kennedy’s actions, despite her restraint in commenting on the situation. She also shared that she has remained in contact with Lewber, offering support, and emphasized that her silence was not an endorsement of Kennedy’s behavior.
Kennedy’s arrest occurred on December 10, when police responded to a call about an argument between him and Lewber. Officers reportedly observed Kennedy grabbing Lewber, although no visible injuries were found. This event sparked public statements from Kennedy’s ex-girlfriend Kristen Doute and his former fiancée Raquel Leviss, who both reflected on their difficult experiences with him. Kennedy released his own statement after posting bail but did not directly address the comments from Doute or Leviss.
Shay reflected on what she knew of Kennedy from his past relationships, particularly his time with Raquel Leviss. While Leviss had never claimed physical abuse, Shay acknowledged that abuse isn’t limited to just physical violence. She expressed empathy for Leviss, who ultimately left Kennedy, and described her support for Leviss during their friendship.
Shay also voiced her hope that Kennedy’s arrest could serve as a turning point for him. She hoped it would inspire him to commit to personal growth and healing, rather than seeing the situation as a setback in his career. She observed that Kennedy’s name had already been removed from some public events, which she saw as a direct consequence of his actions. Shay also urged Kennedy to seek professional help, not only for the sake of his relationship with Lewber but for his own well-being.
Kennedy’s statement after his arrest emphasized his commitment to focusing on his mental health, personal growth, and sobriety. His legal team indicated that they were investigating the situation, hoping that charges would not be filed, given the lack of injuries.
Meanwhile, Lewber has kept a low profile since the incident. A source revealed that she and Kennedy were taking time apart, and Lewber thanked those who had reached out to her for support while respecting her privacy. Shay expressed her desire to continue offering Lewber support, emphasizing that she didn’t want to say anything that could make her choose between a friendship and her relationship.
Shay also addressed her own husband, Brock Davies, acknowledging his past mistakes. She noted that Davies had made poor decisions in his early twenties, but had worked hard to change. Shay emphasized that Davies was no longer the person he once was, and she believed Kennedy could undergo similar personal growth.
At the end of the podcast, Shay shared a message of support for anyone in an abusive relationship, encouraging listeners to make an exit plan if they are in such a situation. She also provided resources for those affected by domestic abuse and stressed the importance of education and support in these circumstances.
Shay admitted that speaking out was difficult, as she often faces criticism regardless of her stance. However, she emphasized the importance of addressing serious topics like domestic violence and hoped her message was received appropriately.
